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Do-overs aren't part of life
Note: I've seen longer, but this is long.
What I would give to go back in time. I would want to start by teaching my 12 year old self that habits can be formed around literally anything, and if you want to be happy in life you need to make sure those habits don't isolate you from the experiences you want in life. I probably wouldn't have really understood the lesson though, and would have made many of the same mistakes. Which is in part because some of the
I am male, 29 years old now, and by technicalities alone I am still a virgin. That is to say I've never had penetrative sex with another person, though I have been penetrated by another man.
I want to rewind the story though, I was 12 years old (approximately) when the real journey began. Up to that point I had been in roughly 8 sexual encounters, and with roughly 5 individuals all of whom were roughly my same age. Four of five were boys, and the fifth was my sister(I should say first, because she was the one to expose me to this behaviour); this was all mostly stemming from a mutual curiosity of nudity. So the world of naked bodies was nothing really new to me, but I hadn't really experienced an orgasm yet and I didn't know how any of the parts worked or how they could be used. So being the curious introverted kid I was, when I was finally exposed to pornography I was very interested because I was now for the first time seeing how everything worked. I did not learn about masturbation at the same time, that was probably a month later, or perhaps just a week or two.
I was already a hardcore gamer, I played a lot of Diablo 2 in those days and eventually moved on to first person shooters. So my point is, I already had one computer-centric habit which had been running rampant to some degree. I would go out if invited to hang out or do something, but my go to activity wasn't to go out and find something to do it was to stay inside and play games. This is assuming I could even manage to get onto the computer, my sister was on MSN a lot and I would need to usually wait for her to go out with friends.
So having learned what masturbation was, and having seen enough porn to know how penises work I tried it out. I was in middle school and this meant I got home about an hour earlier than my sister, and about two hours before my parents. So I had a narrow window, I didn't really consider most days whether I should or if I wanted to I just knew it felt good to have erections and even better to have orgasms. So that was how the habit or behavioural addiction(if you prefer) began.
By High School I had an average of ~2.3 times a day. Some days I'd do it til it felt raw, other days I'd just do it the once, and on occasion I wouldn't even have the opportunity. Let's talk about opportunities actually, I couldn't always manage to have private access to the computer room so I found some images on few different days. I printed those images off, then I stashed them somewhere nobody would look (inside some computer game boxes). Once or twice I actually took them out of the house, one time maybe twice I masturbated inside a bush by a grocery store. I could actually pin point it on google maps if need be, that was certainly a thrill. It wasn't even the first time I had masturbated in public, I once decided to go masturbate in the school bathroom because I got horny seeing one girl's earth shattering ass in her tight jeans.
So by late high school I started viewing my habit more as an addiction, or a problematic behaviour to say the least. On the other hand though I was still considering it practice for a girlfriend, I wanted to make sure I could last long enough. So often my sessions would last for as long as possible, I can vaguely recall a few 6 hour sessions long ago. What I hadn't considered yet was that my habits were socially isolating me, this didn't occur to me because I was in high school, and when in school almost everyone makes a friend or two along the way.
High school ended though, and then came community college. This first time in college I became friends with a pot head, because I was just starting to experiment with smoking weed. Weed for this guy made him social, and somewhat outgoing. For me I became even more introverted when I smoked. I failed college, ultimately because of my weed smoking habits, and I still had high school habits of procrastinating with my work load.
I moved back to my hometown and moved in with a friend. We are both computer geeks, and so we had a computer setup in our living room. I still found a way, we were at opposite sides of a long table with our computers. So I just kept my pants on to do it. I still hadn't realized how bad of a problem I had with isolation.
Though, I did realize I had a problem with social skills. Primarily because I was working in call centers a lot. So I went back to school for computer repair, something I didn't really need to pay money for since I already knew it. This put me in a learning environment however, and made it a lot easier to practice socializing. No major breakthroughs were made, but I became slightly more adept at relating to people. This paid off a fair amount.
Next came the isolation, I was trying to date at this point.. but I didn't really know how to go live life so I stayed at home and searched from the internet; ultimately this failed because I had an unattractive lifestyle, as well as poor personal style. This searching helped curb some of my negative feelings though, but my primary mechanism remained masturbation to porn. By this point, I had considered myself addicted to porn for a few years. I even had a desire to stop, but my desire for porn was stronger and I knew this so I rarely tried to stop. Though I did try to make it difficult for me to masturbate or watch porn, ex: having my computer in the shared living space. Ultimately this just ruined my sleeping patterns. Not that my frequent 8 hour gaming sessions had been doing me any favors in that department.
I haven't really mentioned my emotional state through the earlier years because I felt as though I had no emotional state. If I had one I was oblivious to it. With the exception of a depression in high school, which came from a missed opportunity with a girl. That depression lasted longer than it really should have, and was ultimately ended in an unhealthy way (in the sense that it wasn't a healthy solution, maybe not though you tell me it was simply to stop thinking about all the things that made me feel depressed "out of sight out of mind"). I tended to think of myself as apathetic, but that changed eventually (~4 years ago). Up to that point my masturbation habits were primarily impulsive, I would feel an urge and go do my business. After that point in high school it became much more problematic than that, I started using it to cope with feelings I didn't want to feel; feelings that I usually didn't even acknowledge. So then my habits became compulsive in addition to impulsive. So now if I have extremely distressing emotions one of my thoughts is instinctively to PMO, also to take a hot shower or bath.
I apologize for the break in continuity here, but reframing from present day. I have been trying to date for a relatively long time now, primarily through the internet seeing as how I have yet to even truly ask a woman out on a date. I've known for some time I've needed to work on myself, that I need to develop some habit and hobbies that are attractive qualities. So nearly a year ago I purchased a book "Models - Attract women through honesty" I've found it incredibly insightful, and I haven't quite finished the book because I haven't really been acting in step with the advice so far. Basically I am trying to catch up in life with my place in the book.
I've started dressing differently, with pants that truly fit and tend to make my bum look good; still need to stock up on some sweaters and t-shirts though. I've began accruing some hobbies and habits; I'm getting into bouldering as a stepping stone to rock climbing, and I've gained about 10 pounds since joining a gym and eating more. - I never realized how difficult it can be to gain weight I thought it would just be a matter of eating a lot of garbage. That isn't the case though, you really gotta count the calories and make sure you're eating enough. I've taken to grabbing blizzards from DQ when I am beginning a recovery phase. - Even before getting the book, I began styling my hair instead of shaving most of it off. I am also in University(yes, at 29 I am an undergraduate) so that work load helps keep me busy. I moved over 5000km away from home. This was all since September, mostly.
Just being in a new city, one where I feel like I could really build a life instead of constantly feeling like I'm stuck in a shit hole with no jobs and nothing to do.. it makes me feel optimistic about my future. It gives me some strength in my day to day life. When I first moved here, and I was still staying in a hostel for ~2 weeks I found it relatively easy to stay from porn. Especially since they had a filter and I failed to bypass it. I made it about 3 weeks in total without PMO. Then I started getting naturally horny though, and one saturday morning I decided to try and follow the book's advice. Not to not masturbate but to not use porn while masturbating, which I think is some pretty solid logic given how this type of addiction forms. What I didn't consider however was how difficult it would be to avoid using porn when I felt it was taking too long to climax. So I broke, I gave in to my impulse to gratify at any cost by going against my own wishes and booted up some porn. For the most part I stayed pretty strong, I was masturbating about once a week in a relatively healthy manner.
Then enters early November or late October. I decided to go onto a website that almost exclusively features pinned images, and in hindsight it seems so obvious that I would relapse in such a profound way; going back to once a day, and once or twice doubling up. This is because, once I'm on an image site I tend to spend at least an hour browsing, usually more, only letting myself climax once I have a good sequence of tabs. Then I don't end up closing all the tabs, I usually close a tab after I save or decide not to. So then when I finish I'm left with all these opened tabs that I can't bring myself to close. Now I have a bunch of tabs open that are each individual invitations to binge, because images are where I started in the early 2000's. So this continued until sometime around last weekend. I've PMO'd twice in the last 4 days, one of which was today. I've since cleared out all those tabs, though I did it the PMO binge way. So I've got all or most of the images saved somewhere. Now I've gone and deleted my local porn many times in the past, probably at least a dozen times in the last 15 years. I've always come to regret the decision though, and as such I'm not willing to make that step any time soon. Though I have made the decision to avoid having it direct on my hard drive.
So going forward I'm going to start by avoiding looking at images, or at the very least avoid going to image sites. I think this is possible for me. This will help ensure my addiction doesn't conflict with my work load at university. Furthermore I'm going to try to get back to week long streaks of not masturbating (period). If possible I'll try to use my imaginations and avoid pornography all together, because I know I'll only be able to accomplish climax if I'm quite horny which won't be possible on a week by week basis.
As for some form of punishment, I've been contemplating this and I haven't come up with anything that makes much sense. Banning TV wouldn't be good as it is a way I avoid PMO. Hitting the gym as a punishment would be trading one time sink for another, which is a problem for finishing assignments and papers. That is all I've really come up with, and both ideas sucked.
So, I hope you were able to relate to some of what I said here and hopefully enjoyed the read. I tried my best to keep it all relevant to my addiction. If you don't see how something was relevant perhaps you'll see the connection in a future post.
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